For Patients · If you're nervous or it's been years
Scared of the dentist? Nothing happens without your OK.
You can stop at any time. Raise a hand and we stop — no explanation needed, and nothing goes on until you say so.
If dental anxiety has kept you away for years, that's fine. Your first visit can be just a conversation with Eric Oh, DDS MS, a general dentist.

Our comfort menu. Just ask any of us.
Four things that are true here
We can't promise how you'll feel. We can tell you what will and won't happen.
You can stop at any time
One honest limit: once a step is underway, there can be a moment when finishing is safer than stopping. If that moment exists, Dr. Oh will tell you before he starts, so you know where your stop works before anything begins.
The experience most often behind severe dental fear is feeling helpless in the chair. That is why control comes first here.
Your first visit can be just a conversation
No instruments, no exam, no x-rays unless you ask for them. You'll sit down with Dr. Oh — in the chair or not, your choice — and talk about what has kept you away.
Some people leave with a plan. Some leave with a second appointment. Some just leave, and come back when they're ready. All three are fine with us.
Every step explained before it happens
Before anything happens, you'll know what it is, why, and how long it takes. Dr. Oh shows you what he sees on the screen and walks you through it in plain words.
Tell him how much detail you want. Some people want every step; some want only the headline. Either is fine, and you can change your mind mid-visit.
If he finds something he didn't expect, he pauses wherever it's safe to and shows you that too, before deciding anything with you.
If your fear is severe, say so
Tell us before the first visit — a quick call is fine. It is not a rare thing to tell a dentist — dental fear is common, and we hear it often.
The options are mostly practical: we book extra time, you can take breaks, and your stop signal is agreed before anything starts. Whatever we decide together, the first three still stand.
If your anxiety is severe, ask about it at the conversation visit. Dr. Oh offers nitrous oxide (“laughing gas”) in the office for patients who need help relaxing. It is a treatment he may recommend, decided at your visit: it is billed like any other treatment and may be covered by insurance.
For deeper sedation, we work with licensed dental anesthesiologists who hold the New Jersey permit for it. They come to our office, administer it, and stay until you're ready to go home.
And two practical ones
Questions we hear
What if I haven't been to the dentist in years?
Will you judge me for the condition of my teeth?
Can I stop during the appointment?
Can my first visit be just a conversation?
What happens at the first appointment?
What if I panic in the chair?
Should I tell you I'm scared of the dentist?
Do you treat patients with dental anxiety?
Is it too late for my teeth?
Who answers when I call?
What if something hurts right now?
What will a visit cost?
Your first visit
What a first visit looks like
Four steps: call us, sit down and talk, decide together, then go at your pace.
Call us
Call (973) 808-4373. Say as much or as little as you like — “I haven't been in years and I'm nervous” is plenty.
Sit down with Dr. Oh
Your first visit can be a conversation with a general dentist, not an exam, unless you ask for one.
Decide what's next, together
If you want him to look, he'll look and show you what he sees on the screen. If you don't, that's the whole visit, and you're welcome back whenever you're ready.
A plan at your pace
When you're ready, we build a plan one step at a time, each step explained before it happens. You set the pace.
Haven't been in years? Call us first.
Call (973) 808-4373 and say as little as you like. If something hurts right now, the same number works — see Emergency Care. Sora Dentistry, 271 US Highway 46, Bldg G, Ste 109, Fairfield, NJ 07004. Mon & Wed 10–8, Tue 10–5.
Eric Oh, DDS MS, is a general dentist. Nothing on this page is a diagnosis or a promise of how you will feel.